Psychology says the people most at peace in old age are not the ones who achieved the most — they are the ones who at some point stopped measuring their life against the one they thought they were going to have

Psychology says the people most at peace in old age are not the ones who achieved the most — they are the ones who at some point stopped measuring their life against the one they thought they were going to have

As people move into later life, something subtle but profound begins to change. The measures that once defined success—achievement, status, recognition—start to lose their grip. In their place, a quieter question emerges: Am I at peace with the life I actually lived? Psychology suggests that the people who answer “yes” are not necessarily those who … Read more